They report to facebook, my second facebook account(jack wong) has been deleted. I noticed that, account of kacaubird also missing. What we need to do now?
Sorry I can't disclose my identity as yet for I am still fighting a hard battle with the evil forces for the sake of my youngster. But my opinion is genuine and I speak as one who has worked as an educator and professional before.
I suspect their teaching is very misleading and unethical. If you have a youngster taking tuition at the center you might see some improvement in their academic performance. But think twice before you are persuaded to let your youngsters work for the company. It doesn't take long for them to be brainwashed as they are being fed with lies day in and day out. Before you know it their focus has changed from doing their best for their studies to doing their best for SUPER!
They get students to work for them from 6.30am till evening. Then the teenaged "teachers" will wait at your gate to take your youngsters out after 10.30pm and you are blessed if they come home after midnight if at all. They are fanned to turn against their family and the "teachers" don't seem to mind if their students skip classes in school.
They report to facebook, my second facebook account(jack wong) has been deleted. I noticed that, account of kacaubird also missing. What we need to do now?
ReplyDelete我看了很多你们在fb写的、在blog写的。突然有感而发而写了。。。
ReplyDelete已经尽力地在揭发了…… 已经劝了不只几千遍…… 为什么还是有人陷在里面？为什么超级的人都仿佛被洗脑了？原因无它，他们（超级高层干部）说的话并非完全无道理。他们善于以多角度去分析一件事。
1.陷入的第一步
我们都懂成功人士所得来的并非容易。他们也许经历了很多风浪才爬到了今天的这一步。在成功人士旁学习获益良多，这是真理。就好比跟成绩好的同学请教读书心得。那些心得，恐怕是他们琢磨了很久才得到的。若他们愿意与你分享，你就不需花那一些时间去琢磨。
但，人们没看到的是：不是每个人都适合这样的路，就像不是每个人都能乖乖地呆在同一个地方读3、4个小时的书。
“我驾的是Mercedes。你跟着我，就算驾不了Mercedes，也会驾Camry！” 超级让这些中五生、中六生看到了希望。（生生的成功人士摆在你面前，你怎样说不相信？）试问他们会去想：也许我不适合这样的路之类的吗？超级人，他们不懂。只能说是华人体内那不爱认输的精神。既然他可以，我为什么不可以？这样的观念让他们陷进去了。
2.越陷越深
说骗话，这是有良心的人都不赞同的行为。但，‘善意的谎言’，这是大部分人都能接受的。在欺骗家长说“老师们是大学毕业，还经过总院特训中”这件事上表露无遗。试问有哪个家长会把自己的掌上明珠送到一家‘老师们就只有中五毕业水准’的补习中心呢？再笨的人也不会这样做吧！若这样下去，补习中心不就倒了吗？反正现在也在念着大学了，撒一个迟早是事实的善意谎言没什么吧？应该是这样的心理让他们觉得骗家长是必要的，是无可奈何的！
但，他们不知说谎是会上瘾的。撒了一次谎，就会有第二次，第三次…… 结果会演变成每天都在撒谎。谎话说久了，会让说谎的人都觉得那已经不是谎话，是事实了。同样的，编了这样的谎话，会编另一个谎话。（欺瞒老师们的真实年龄）久而久之，超级人就活在自己充满谎言的世界，良心依然过得很安。他们始终相信那是‘善意的谎言’。
3.无法自拔
也许刚进超级的中五、中六生真的是一心一意地想要考到外国文凭，让自己的父母以自己为傲。但是，从早到晚，想的全是如何把书教好、如何帮助分院把业绩提高、如何让自己进步。
几年下来，说真的，最后整个脑袋只会想着如何在超级成功，最初进来的原因早已忘了。这就是时间的功效。
几年下来，说真的，这些中五、中六生的未来生活圈子会变得很小。但每次都会有新人进来。自然而然地，心里会有这样的错想：生活圈子不是‘小’了，而是‘大’了。
几年下来，就算再多么悲观的人，在这么多“成功例子”的包围下，也会变得乐观。他们不会察觉自己多了缺点，反而会觉得自己非常优秀。因为旁人（超级人）都是这样告诉他们的。
几年下来，就算你跟他们说：“喂！你们的文凭是假的！”他们会说：“就算拿到的文凭是假的，只要我能呆在超级，我便能成功。”这便是超级人的塑造过程。
不能怪陷在里面的他们看不清事实。旁观者清，当局者迷。我并没有要超级倒台的意思，也没说他们是邪教。
世上根本没什么真正的正义与邪恶。所谓的正义，只是大部分人们觉得对的事；而所谓的邪恶，是小部分人们觉得对的事。
在超级，会学到很多（口才、临危不乱、勇气、自我鼓励……）。但，回想当初的你、当初的梦…… 和现在的你…… 若你觉得你并没有后悔，你过得很好，要求别再重伤你们，我会诚心地祝福你。我只是想跟那些会进超级的人们说：“三思。”
hope that this blog would not close like others.
ReplyDelete刚才还想上去看，找来找去都找不到group，心里大概知道被关掉了，想不到是真的Haiz超级真的是太黑暗了~
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ReplyDelete听说新加坡的学校不要跟超级合作了。。。他们要读伦敦的学校了。。。
ReplyDelete原因无它，他们（超级高层干部）说的话并非完全无道理。他们善于以多角度去分析一件事。
ReplyDelete我们都懂成功人士所得来的并非容易。他们也许经历了很多风浪才爬到了今天的这一步。在成功人士旁学习获益良多，这是真理。就好比跟成绩好的同学请教读书心得。那些心得，恐怕是他们琢磨了很久才得到的。若他们愿意与你分享，你就不需花那一些时间去琢磨。
但，人们没看到的是：不是每个人都适合这样的路，就像不是每个人都能乖乖地呆在同一个地方读3、4个小时的书。
“我驾的是Mercedes。你跟着我，就算驾不了Mercedes，也会驾Camry！” 超级让这些中五生、中六生看到了希望。（生生的成功人士摆在你面前，你怎样说不相信？）试问他们会去想：也许我不适合这样的路之类的吗？超级人，他们不懂。只能说是华人体内那不爱认输的精神。既然他可以，我为什么不可以？这样的观念让他们陷进去了。
我赞成你所讲的。其实一开始他们是利用了每个人都有的虚荣心来吸引我们。之前我也是这样想，听他们说了后，觉得值得试试，也相信自己能做到，可是久了我发现他们的生活方式不适合我，他们好像铁打的，不眠不休也可以的，我自问办不到，可是自我安慰说只要熬几年就能出头，值得！也决定要走着一条路了。直到要报名的那一个星期，我家人极力地要我想清楚，最后才决定放弃。现在想起来，也不只是庆幸还是走运了。
就是讲，刚才我朋友要从我这里要看的时候，我才发现不见了，幸好有google，我才找回这里。
ReplyDeleteSorry I can't disclose my identity as yet for I am still fighting a hard battle with the evil forces for the sake of my youngster. But my opinion is genuine and I speak as one who has worked as an educator and professional before.
ReplyDeleteI suspect their teaching is very misleading and unethical. If you have a youngster taking tuition at the center you might see some improvement in their academic performance. But think twice before you are persuaded to let your youngsters work for the company. It doesn't take long for them to be brainwashed as they are being fed with lies day in and day out. Before you know it their focus has changed from doing their best for their studies to doing their best for SUPER!
They get students to work for them from 6.30am till evening. Then the teenaged "teachers" will wait at your gate to take your youngsters out after 10.30pm and you are blessed if they come home after midnight if at all. They are fanned to turn against their family and the "teachers" don't seem to mind if their students skip classes in school.